By The Lighted Path LLC · Mental Health Counseling
For many, the holiday season brings warmth, connection, and cherished traditions. But for others, this time of year also brings increased pressure—full schedules, financial strain, heightened expectations, and sometimes complicated family dynamics. Even positive events can feel overwhelming when life is already stretched thin.
If you or someone you know experiences stress, anxiety, or emotional fatigue during the holidays, you’re not alone. As therapists, we see this every year. The important thing to know is that holiday stress is manageable with the right tools and support.
Below are compassionate, therapist-approved strategies to help you navigate the season with more grounding, clarity, and peace. These tips build on insights offered by the Mayo Clinic. Mayo Clinic News Network+1
1. Acknowledge Your Feelings Without Judgment
The holidays often highlight grief, loneliness, or complicated family relationships. Instead of pushing your emotions away, allow them to surface.
Therapeutic insight:
Naming your feelings—sadness, frustration, nostalgia, or fatigue—reduces their intensity. Acceptance is the first step toward healing.
Try this:
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Pause and check in with yourself each day.
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Share your feelings with someone you trust.
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Write in a journal or use voice notes to process emotion.
2. Stay Connected to Supportive People
Connection is a powerful protective factor for mental health. Whether you’re spending time with family, attending a community event, or chatting with a friend, healthy relationships reduce stress.
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Joining a support group or attending a virtual meet-up
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Volunteering—helping someone else often softens our own stress
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Sending a text or video call to a loved one who is far away
3. Set Realistic Expectations
The picture-perfect holiday often seen online or in movies isn’t real. Families grow, change, and sometimes drift apart. Traditions shift, and schedules don’t always align.
Instead of striving for “perfect,” aim for meaningful.
Therapist tip:
Honor your favorite traditions while leaving room for new ones. Flexibility reduces emotional strain and lets you stay present.
4. Press Pause on Conflicts
If you’re navigating strained relationships, choose compassion over confrontation during holiday gatherings.
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Avoid triggering topics or heated discussions
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Set time limits for visits
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Focus on shared values instead of differences
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Remember others may also be feeling the effects of holiday stress Mayo Clinic Connect+1
Healthy boundaries make holiday interactions more peaceful.
5. Create a Holiday Budget You Feel Good About
Financial pressure is one of the biggest drivers of seasonal stress.
Try:
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Setting a clear spending limit
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Offering homemade or sentimental gifts
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Doing a family gift-draw instead of everyone buying for everyone
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Donating to a charity in someone’s name
Empowerment comes from spending intentionally—not extravagantly. Mayo Clinic News Network+1
6. Plan Ahead to Reduce Chaos
A simple plan can turn the season from overwhelming to manageable.
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A shopping or baking day
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A rest day
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A social catch-up time
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A morning movement or mindfulness break
Planning reduces last-minute stress and allows more room for actual enjoyment. Mayo Clinic News Network
7. Practice Healthy Boundaries — Saying “No” is Self-Care
You don’t need to attend every party or take on every responsibility.
Remember:
“No” is a complete sentence.
You are not required to explain or justify.
Protecting your mental health may mean scaling back your holiday commitments. Mayo Clinic Health System+1
8. Prioritize Your Physical and Emotional Well-Being
Your mind and body are deeply connected. Small daily habits create a big impact during this time of year.
Helpful habits include:
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Eating balanced meals
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Staying hydrated
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Getting enough sleep
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Moving your body daily
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Limiting alcohol and tobacco
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Reducing time on social media if it affects your mood
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Practicing mindfulness, breathing exercises, or prayer
Choose one or two to start—small steps still count. Mayo Clinic News Network+1
9. Give Yourself Permission to Rest
Even those who love the holidays need downtime. Rest allows your nervous system to reset.
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A short walk
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Listening to music
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Visiting a holiday light display
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Reading something uplifting
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Spending 15 minutes alone in a quiet space
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Trying a guided meditation or calming podcast
Rest is not a reward—it’s a necessity. Mayo Clinic Connect
10. Seek Professional Support When Needed
If you notice ongoing sadness, anxiety, irritability, or emotional overwhelm that doesn’t improve, it might be time to talk to a mental health professional.
Therapists can help you:
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Identify stress triggers
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Strengthen coping skills
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Improve emotional regulation
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Navigate grief or family complexities
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Build healthy boundaries
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Develop practical tools personalized to your needs
At The Lighted Path LLC, we’re here to walk with you through every season—especially the difficult ones.
You Deserve Peace This Season
Holiday stress is real, but with awareness and gentle intention, you can create a season that is calmer, more grounded, and more meaningful. Small adjustments add up, and support is always available if you need it.
You’re not expected to do the holidays perfectly—only authentically.
If you’re looking for holiday support, counseling, or guidance, our team at The Lighted Path LLC is here to help you find stability and peace.