The holiday season is meant to feel joyful, but for many people it also brings pressure, overwhelm, and emotional exhaustion. If you’re finding it hard to feel cheerful right now, you’re not alone. At The Lighted Path LLC, our therapists support clients through the unique stressors that often appear this time of year — from family dynamics to financial strain, increased expectations, and disrupted routines.

One helpful skill we regularly teach clients is mindfulness — a simple yet powerful practice that brings you back into the present moment instead of getting stuck in worry or overwhelm.

What Is Mindfulness?

Mindfulness is the practice of intentionally paying attention to what’s happening right now with openness, curiosity, and compassion. It’s noticing when your mind drifts into stress about the future or frustration about the past — and gently returning to what’s right in front of you.

At The Lighted Path, we teach both formal mindfulness techniques (like breathing exercises and grounding tools) and informal practices you can use throughout your day. These small moments of awareness can reduce stress, calm your nervous system, and bring more ease to your holiday season.

Here are four mindful, therapist-approved ways to move through the holidays with more peace and less pressure:

1. Give Yourself Permission to Be Imperfect

The holidays tend to come with high expectations — perfect meals, perfect plans, perfect behavior, perfect moods. But perfection is unrealistic, and trying to achieve it often creates more stress than joy.

Instead, try shifting your mindset:

• Allow things to unfold naturally, even if they don’t go exactly as you imagined.

• Remind yourself that “good enough” truly is enough.

• Notice when you’re being overly self-critical and practice softening that inner pressure.

At The Lighted Path, we encourage clients to celebrate progress, not perfection. Your holiday doesn’t have to be flawless to be meaningful.

2. Refocus on What Truly Matters

Traffic, long lines, packed schedules, financial strain — the holiday chaos can easily take over. When you feel yourself spiraling into frustration, pause and ask:

Does this moment really deserve my stress?
A long grocery line is just a long line — not a crisis, not a reflection of your worth, not a reason for the whole day to feel ruined.

Can I shift this moment into something more grounding?
While waiting, take a deep breath, stretch your shoulders, or reflect on one thing that brought you joy today.

Is there an opportunity to connect?
Offer a smile, give a gentle compliment, or simply observe the environment around you. Even small moments of presence can change the entire tone of your day.

Keeping perspective protects your peace — and helps you stay connected to what you actually care about during the holidays.

3. Choose Kindness in Stressful Moments

You may not be able to control how others behave, but you can control how you respond.

When someone is acting impatient, irritable, or unkind:

• Try reminding yourself, “This person might be struggling.”
  This mindset can soften frustration and help you stay grounded.

• Extend compassion where you can — especially toward those who may be grieving or feeling isolated.

• If tension builds, step away from the moment and take a few slow breaths.
  A brief pause can shift your nervous system out of “fight or flight” and give you a clearer perspective.

Kindness doesn’t mean ignoring boundaries — it means responding with intention rather than reacting impulsively.

4. Set New Year Goals That Support You (Not Stress You Out)

New Year’s resolutions often fall apart because they’re too big, too vague, or too harsh. Instead of setting yourself up for frustration, try approaching change the mindful way:

Start small.

Break goals into manageable steps. If you want to improve your health, start with adding a daily walk, drinking more water, or increasing vegetables — not an extreme overhaul.

Be compassionate with yourself.

If you didn’t meet last year’s goals or take a break mid-year, that doesn’t mean you failed. Guilt keeps people stuck — compassion moves people forward.

At The Lighted Path, we help clients build change gradually and sustainably, one step at a time.

Support for a Calmer, Brighter Holiday Season

If the holidays are feeling heavy this year, therapy can help. Our team at The Lighted Path LLC in Albuquerque, NM and Edgewood, NM offers in-person and online appointments to support stress management, anxiety, trauma, relationship stress, and overall emotional wellness.

Whether you need grounding tools, mindfulness strategies, or someone to talk to, we’re here to walk with you.

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